| same-sex "ersatz" or "genuine" relationship?

same sex relationship can never be perfect.. you can never force your partner to be faithful in the same way that even a "boy-girl" relationship can never be.. what is important is that at the end of the day you find each other on your side and you're happy knowing that he is yours.. we need to enjoy the relationship while it lasts.. for if you waste your time in doubts and insecurities, you will never appreciate how wonderful it is to fall in love.. to get hurt is a fact that we bargain when we choose to love.. but hey, know what - loving is the essence of our existence.. that is the reason why we were created - to love.. and so let us not count the times that we were hurt.. rather count the times we smiled, we laughed, we love.. it is not how many times we have fallen in love, whether once, twice or a million times. what is important is that when we grow old, we regret nothing because we have loved and that we let those whom we loved feel that we love them.. let us not waste time on doubting that our present relationship might not work or that our partner might be playing around with someone else.. we just continue to love..

and let us not be desperate looking for love.. love always comes at a right time with the right person. corny as it may sound but even in this kind of preference we need to wait for the "right one" just like a woman waiting for her right man. let us not hurry things up, for somewhere out there, there is "him" that will come and will show you the wonders of love...

- a special thanks to kuya jas for this information.. it was indeed substantial for people like me with a lot of questions about same-sex love..